Want to meet a cougar but not sure where to start?
Meeting cougars is always easier said than done. That’s why I’m a firm believer in not only maintaining an online dating account but also being open to meeting women anywhere.
I recently met a much younger man on my way home, when I stopped at a bar to use the washroom. He asked if I wanted to be his partner for a game of pool… and that was it. We’ve spent the last two weeks in my bedroom!
Let’s start with where to meet cougars online, then I’ll give you some ideas for the best places to meet cougars in the wild!
Where to Find a Cougar Online
Cougar Dating Sites
When looking for cubs online, I personally prefer to use a site dedicated to cougar cub relationships and hookups. This helps find interested younger men quickly and allows me to openly state my cougar status.
You can check out my favorite cougar dating sites here:
If you use a more mainstream site, make sure you adjust your search settings to an older age bracket. You can search for a specific age group, as well as someone with similar interests, and even someone with kids, if MILFs are your fantasy.
Even if you just want a cougar to have casual sex with, you still need to get her attention with a great profile and that all-important first message. The hotter she is, the more you will need to stand out from the many men who are also likely asking her out.
Read: Cougar Dating Profile Do’s and Don’ts
5 Places to Meet Cougars Offline
I meet most of my cubs online now, but I’m always open to those spontaneous hookups that come from meeting in public. Here are places where you could meet cougars when you’re not hooking up with them online.
1. Cougars in The Park
A lot of women like to go to the park alone to read or just relax.
If you own a dog, even better as it’s always easy to start a conversation with a fellow pet owner. If you don’t, why not take your friend’s dog for a walk. This is something I always think about doing.
Read: How to Approach a Cougar and Start a Conversation
2. Art Show or Book Launch
Book launches and art shows are also events where you will find women flying solo. And if you are an art or book lover, you’ll be able to make conversation and know that you already have something in common.
3. Meet Cougars at a Bar or Club
Bars and clubs are cougar meeting places that go without saying, and for good reason.
Many cougar hookups begin at the club or in a bar. Whether you like dancing or playing pool, there is usually ample opportunity to meet and flirt with women.
Some cities even have bars that are known as “cougar clubs” if you really want to meet a lot of cougar women at once.
Read: Cougar Pick Up Tips and Pick Up Lines
4. Meet Gym Cougars
Cougars who love younger men usually are into fitness because they know how important it is to look and feel confident. If you’ve never joined a gym, I highly recommend it as a way to boost your dating confidence!
As well, most gyms have drop-in sports that are perfect for meeting new cougars on an ongoing basis.
Read: How to Attract a Cougar (and Become Her Prey)
5. Cougar Speed Dating
Not for the faint of heart, speed dating nights are often hosted at bars and guarantee that you meet at least ten women. If you’re someone who has good instincts and an outgoing personality, you will likely find this fun.
Where Do You Meet Cougars?
If you love dating or just hooking up with cougars, then taking your chances at a club or bar, or hoping to meet a cougar at the campus laundromat is a real gamble. But it happens!
So while you should always keep your cougar dating profile fresh, be open to meeting cougars wherever you go, especially in places that older women frequent most.
Where have you had the most luck meeting cougars?
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