Cougar Dating

How to Approach a Cougar and Start a Conversation

Couple Drinking in Bar

Even if you have good self-esteem, it can be intimidating to approach a confident cougar. But like most people, a cougar hasn’t always had the perfect day before you get a chance to greet her. Open the conversation by simply asking how her day or week has been. It’s a casual way to get the ball rolling, and women won’t feel like you’re trying too hard. Not only will she appreciate that your interest in her feelings, but it will help you determine if this is the right time to ask her out, and even if the night has the possibility of something more.

When she begins her narration of the day’s events, make sure to note whether she’s making positive comments while smiling or if she describes everything with exasperated sighs. Be a good listener if she’s had a rough day, and see if you can turn her mood around. Sense of humor and charm go a long way! Observe her body language for signs of interest and to find out if there is some type of chemistry. Be sure to ask questions and actively listen to her responses. Soon enough, you’ll know if it’s a good idea to stick around or move on.

If approaching cougars to start a conversation or ask them out makes you anxious, you should consider using online dating sites to meet these lovely creatures. There are many niche sites for younger men who prefer dating older women, and everything can begin in the comfort of your own home.

One of the big advantages of online dating sites like is that you can take your time browsing through thousands of profiles of women before you make a move. You will also be able to create a profile that highlights your best qualities while describing the kind of woman who you are hoping to meet. This can save a lot of time and energy in your pursuit of a cougar who is right for you.

Read: Flirting Tips for Younger Men

Tell us what you think!

Inline Feedbacks
View all comments