How to Meet More Cougars Online

I’ve picked up my fair share of cubs in bars, but there has been dry spells, that’s for sure! If you love dating or just hooking up with older women, then taking your chances at a club or bar, or hoping to meet a cougar at the campus laundromat is a real gamble.

Online dating may have taken a bit of the thrill out of the chase, but it beats feeling cold and lonely on a winter’s night when you feel too tired to go out and hope to hookup. It’s much easier to stay in the comfort of your home, browse dating profiles at your leisure, and meet someone who is looking for the same thing, whether that be a hookup, a friend with benefits, or something more serious.

3 Tips for Meeting Cougars Online

1. Join a niche dating site that caters to younger men who want to meet older women.

There are so many reasons why cougars are awesome, and that’s why there are sites like This site is purrfect for finding sexy mature ladies who want to date hot young studs.

2. Narrow your search.

If you use a more mainstream site like OkCupid, make sure you adjust your search settings to an older age bracket. You can search for a specific age group, as well as someone with similar interests, and even someone with kids, if MILFs are your fantasy.

3. Send a great first message.

Even if you just want a cougar to have casual sex with, you still need to get her attention with that all important first message. The hotter she is, the more you will need to stand out from the many men who are also likely asking her out.

Read: Tips for Sending Online Messages to Older Women

I meet most of my cubs online now, but I’m always open to those spontaneous hookups that can be oh so hot! Where do you meet cougars?

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