As a cougar who has had her financial ups and downs, I’ve seen it all. Some cubs expect a cougar to have money, and not only that, but to generously spend it on them. I’ve also dated cubs who are better off and who treat me to lavish evenings out and gifts. I’d like to think there’s a happy medium, that an age difference doesn’t mean there can’t be common ground on how money is spent, whether it’s a one-night hookup or a long-term love affair. Money shouldn’t come between attraction. Inquiring cougars want to know what cubs think.