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Ask Ava: Undressing a Woman before Sex

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Q: Dear Ava. I love dating older women because they are so experienced and confident when it comes to sex. Even though I’ve spent a fair bit of time with women, I can still be shy about making the first move. Luckily with mature women, I don’t always have to. What I want to know is if cougars like to be undressed by younger men. The woman I recently hooked up with gave me a striptease, so I was just wondering. – Randy

A: Hi Randy. I’ve had this discussion with my cougar friends recently, and we all agree that a man undressing us is super sexy. The only problem is that not enough men are doing it. I don’t know if it’s because younger men are watching too much porn, where such nuances are lost, or that they just expect their more experienced lovers to take off their own clothes. Either way, more cubs should be undressing their cougars.

Tips for Undressing a Cougar

1. Just do it. Of course, you’ll want to wait until you know the evening (or day) is going in that direction… that sex is just around the corner. Take your time unless it’s one of those intensely passionate moods that require a more forceful approach, like a quickie.

2. Maintain eye contact. This is important and will enhance the experience for both of you. Looking into your lover’s eyes while slowly unbuttoning or unzipping her clothes adds another dimension of intimacy.

3. Multi-task your contact. So now that you are peeling off her layers and gazing into one another’s eyes, you can also kiss, suck, nibble, squeeze, massage, and caress other parts as you go. Treat her body like a map you are willing to explore every inch of.

Undressing a woman (of any age!) is one of the best forms of foreplay. It makes a woman feel extremely desirable. If you’re shy, it will just take a little practice. And you won’t get bored with this lesson, I promise.

Need advice on dating, relationships, or sex? SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE, and who knows, you may appear in the next Cougar World newsletter. -xo Ava

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